The (wonderful yet fleeting) year that Becky and I lived together we had several recurring conversations, including but not limited to: anything and everything about our TV shows, where we were going to go Friday night for dinner (because neither of us was ever decisive in the slightest), and, most recurrent, incessant nostalgia about our experiences studying abroad.
Becky’s and my semesters abroad, in London and Buenos Aires respectively, were always regarded as the zenith of our (barely quarter-lived) lives. Sure, our experiences were culturally distinct in just about every aspect — language, food, general appearance of the attractive locals — but the quality of life was the same. Equally fantastic, yet ephemeral.
Your responsibilities were minimal as there was no job to be had and classes mattered, but, as anyone who’s been in college knows, classes “mattered.” (Cramming to write and/or study a few times a semester and voilà — college graduate!) Because of this peculiar situation, you were in this limbo area of freedom. You were free to do whatever you wanted in a foreign mega-metropolis, where you could literally do anything your young American heart wanted. (That ‘anything’ being limited to mostly meet people, drink, dance, travel, and repeat.)
Yet at the same time you were safe and secure in your study-abroad bubble. Money was available via grants, savings, or the Bank of Mom & Dad. You had a set beginning and end, easing both your mother’s worries and quickly extinguishing any ‘I miss the US’ moments. And more than anything, for both of us, we just felt this inexplicable and intangible happiness with everything that we did abroad. I think it’s something similar to what movies like Under the Tuscan Sun (which I haven’t even seen) try to capture on screen even though it seems utterly ridiculous and corny. But it happens. Or at least it can happen. To Me, Becky, and Diane Lane at least.
Something we didn’t realize at the time, however, was that the experience was unrepeatable. Never again would we be able to relive our time abroad and its weird perfect environment. It’s like when Peter and Susan can never go back to Narnia. Unfair!
Anyway, my rambling trip down memory lane has a point: I’ve somehow managed to travel through the wardrobe again. By that I mean my month here in Spain has felt like a curious case of study abroad 2.0, which delights me to no end. The parallels between Spanish and Argentine culture (and overlap of language, of course) help a lot. But more than that, I’m loving the fact that I’m getting to experience the country through a point of view different than that of someone merely on vacation. Living with X’s family feels like my new host family.
And, best of all, I’ve manage to rediscover the feeling described above. Everything just makes me happy.